In Loving Memory of John Barry Fitzgerald Jr.
11/30/1964- 10/12/2004
John knew what was important in his life. He wasn’t impressed by money or status. John left the world of finance to pursue a “road less traveled.” For the last four years of his life John counseled the youth of Covenant House in Manhattan. He took great pride in his work but never focused on the good he was doing but instead the good in those he served.
John was a “stubborn irishman” which should be taken in only the best sense of the phrase. At the time of his diagnosis with stage four melanoma he was given six months to live. John died six months and one day later. Those six months were months of at times discouraging treatment but also a time of strengthening family bonds and living! John never gave up his battle until his final days. He spoke of life and plans, surfing and travel. He renewed bonds with old friends and attended his final Giants football game.
John returned to his family home when he became ill. He spent hours each day with his niece and nephews treasuring the newness of each day through their eyes. He loved and he laughed and let no one know his pain. John was very brave.
We all miss John so very much especially his father, sister, brother and stepmother. John is at peace that can never be found in this life. He has returned to the arms of his mother.
Melanoma has robbed so many families. John never liked to be the center of attention but let John’s life and death help us to understand our mission to end this deadly disease. We must educate, use caution and do whatever we can to work toward a cure.